Is Your Glass Half Empty or Half Full? Think Again!

Is it half full or half empty? Think again…

So here’s the perennial question:  Is the glass half empty or half full?

You know the standard answers that supposedly determine whether you’re a pessimist or an optimist.  But pessimism and optimism are both over-rated and unrealistic because they don’t see the whole picture.  In fact they ignore part of the picture.

To the wise and perceptive, the glass is actually FULL. There is some water (which is obvious).  The rest of the glass is filled with air.  Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not there.

We need the air just as much as we need the water. Both are vital.

How many times in your life have you judged yourself, another person or a situation based only on what you see?

It happens every day, moment by moment, when we only use the five physical senses.

How often do you “see” or understand the whole picture?  This happens only when we use our spiritual senses, our spiritual eyes, ears, etc.

Seeing things from a spiritual perspective

What a different view we see when we look at things from a spiritual perspective.

Jesus addresses this point when he tells his disciples, “Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgement.”  (John 7:24)

Here’s an example.  About 15 years ago at a church business meeting, there was a very divisive issue on the floor for discussion.  People on each side were entrenched in what they thought was right and were absolutely certain the other side was deceived and deceiving.  I’m not going to bother you with the details, but I went home that night fuming.

I was mad at certain members because they were on the “wrong” side of the issue.  But I was also upset at having reacted and come across so opinionated myself.  And more than anything, I was deeply disappointed that neither side was really listening to and hearing the other side’s perspective.  I was just as guilty as the others.

Anyway, I got home and all I could see was what appeared wrong.  It seemed that the glass was not only half empty;  it was completely empty.  But I was looking at things from a very limited, very personal, very material, very selfish perspective.

It was hard to pray about this at first, but as I earnestly turned to God for help, I began to see that the glass was not totally empty as seemed so obvious to outward appearance.  This was a gradual process over days and weeks of repentance and prayer.  I finally came to “see” the glass was totally full–even though nothing had changed on the surface picture at church.  I saw that God was governing our church over and above whatever we did or didn’t do.

I found my own peace about the situation.  And eventually the issue faded and was resolved harmoniously.

Not enough…

Have you ever had an experience where it seemed like your glass was half full/half empty.  There wasn’t enough time, money, energy, love, cooperation, etc, to do what needed to be done?  Sure, you’re grateful for whatever you do have, but it really doesn’t seem to be enough to meet the demands of the situation.

Well it’s time to open your spiritual eyes, to spiritualize your view, to see the unseen.  There’s more in the glass than you thought.

God’s love and care, His guidance and protection, His glory and grace are always there filling the glass (our lives) to the fullest.  It’s easy to see this when things are going well.  But do we see it when our glass seems not only empty but as dry as the Sahara Desert?  The good news is that our glass is full whether we see it or not.

Jesus proved this.  In fact, Paul writes, “For in him [Jesus] dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily.” (Colossians 2:9)  Jesus was the embodiment of God’s full glory.

But that was Jesus.  What about us?

Paul saw that we too have access to this fulness of God.  He prays for the Ephesians (and us) that we may be able “to know the love of Christ, which passeth all knowledge [knowledge gained from the five material senses.  There’s that outward appearance of things again.], that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.”  (Ephesians 3:19)

Think of that, to be filled with ALL the FULNESS of GOD.

But it’s crucial here to see the context of this verse from Ephesians:

For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,

That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;

That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,

May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height;

And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.

Ephesians 3:14-19

We must bow our knees to the Father.  We must worship God.  God gives us the riches of His glory which strengthen us inwardly, thereby allowing Christ to dwell in our hearts.  When Christ lives in our hearts, then we are filled with the fulness of God.

So open your eyes, your spiritual eyes.

See the unseen.

Give Christ full access to all the broad avenues of your heart as well as all the nooks and crannies.  (Don’t try to hide anything. It never works.)

No matter what the outward material picture is, your glass, your heart, your life is full.

Completely FULL.



P.S.  Please leave a comment.  I’d love to hear how your glass is full.

Behind the Mask: Looking Beyond Halloween Costumes

Halloween is about to knock at your door.

When I think about all those costumes and the kids behind them, it makes think of something Jesus said,  “Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” (John 7:24) Don’t be fooled by the mask someone or something or some issue is wearing.

Look deeper.

One Wednesday night after church recently, I was talking to a friend who has issues with his brother, half-brother actually.  As a child, my friend looked up to his brother.  But as they both went their separate ways and life styles, my friend has become very put out with his brother for some of the life choices he’s made.  He hasn’t exactly disowned his brother but has as little to do with him as possible.

Way down deep, my friend would still really like to have a true brotherly relationship with him.  But he just can’t get past the all the bad and hurtful things he has done over the years.

After listening quietly for a bit (and he has mentioned this brother in the same way several times before), I simply asked if he had forgiven his bother and if he loved him.  My friend shot back, “Am I supposed to love the bad things he did?  Am I supposed to condone all the mistakes he made and all the people he’s hurt?!!!”

“No, of course not,” I assured him.

Imagine it’s Halloween…

Are you scared by this bat?

Here’s basically what I said to my friend.  Imagine it’s Halloween and the trick-or-treaters are at your door.  Do you really believe that there are ghosts and witches and monsters asking for candy?

“No,” he said.  We may pretend to be fooled and scared but we know that behind the masks, there are fun-loving kids out to have a good time.

Now, Jesus said not to judge after the outward appearance.  In other words, don’t be fooled by the mask that people are wearing.  I said to my friend, “All the bad things your brother has done or is still doing is like a Halloween mask.  It’s not part of what God created him to be.  It’s like mud that a truck splashes on you if you’re too close to the road.”

Jesus saw people with his spiritual senses

When Jesus healed people and forgave their sins, he took in the human picture.  He was not naïve as to what was going on.  But he looked at people with much more than his material eyeballs.  The Bible says he was moved with compassion when he saw people in need.   Everyone around him was using the five material senses to decide what was going on.  They saw only the “outward appearances”  of hopeless cripple, blindness, leprosy, miserable sinner, etc.  Jesus saw people with his pure spiritual senses.

Jesus used his spiritual eyes or spiritual senses and looked far beyond the material picture or “outward appearance” to the original child of God’s creating.  The first chapter in Genesis tells us that God created man–male and female–in His image and likeness.

So I said to my friend:  You’ve got to look farther than the material picture, the “outward appearance”  and try to see what Jesus saw with his spiritual vision.   Jesus didn’t just pretend that there was no sin or sickness to deal with.  He saw what needed to be healed in someone’s thinking.  But he did not psycho-analyze the human mind to solve people’s problems.  He saw deeper into the spiritual reality of their original God-created nature, man created in the image of God.  He saw beyond all the layers of “mud” the world had  splashed on people and the “mud” they had splashed on themselves.  Beneath all the layers of sin and guilt, disease and fear, he saw their original, God-created innocence and purity.

There’s a wonderful line from the movie Brother Sun, Sister Moon which tells the story of the early years of St. Francis of Assisi.  Toward the end of the movie, he goes to see the Pope and pours out his heart.  The Pope responds something to effect that we focus so much on original sin but that we should not forget our original innocence.  (If you haven’t seen that movie, I highly recommend it.)

True Forgiveness

So I said to my friend that he had to love his brother the way God originally made him, in God’s own image and likeness.  Cherish him in this light.  To forgive him is to see that all the bad things he’s done are not really part of who God made him to be.  Love his original God-created manhood.  I told him, “This does not mean the bad things he did are okay or that you approve of them.  It simply means you are loving his original purity and innocence, his goodness and ability to love unselfishly, etc.  And you can pray to know that Christ is knocking on the door of his heart in way that your brother can hear, open up to and accept.”

This was a big paradigm shift for my friend but he realized he had to change his perspective:  quit looking at the material surface of things and look deeper into the spiritual picture.

Look deeper

Is there something in your life you are judging “after the appearance” of things?    Then go deeper into seeing things through the lens of God’s love.

A few nights ago, I was offended by the way someone treated me and I over-reacted big time.  So I had to pray with the ideas I have just shared. It took me a while to cool down, but I had to begin by forgiving him and myself and being truly sorry for my own bad behavior.  I had to see him as God sees him.  That has made all the difference.

This Halloween, when the Trick-or-treaters come to your door, no one will have to remind you that there are cute little kids behind those masks.  But the next time someone is mean to you, tries to harm you or is sinning in a way that affects your life, take a moment to remember that this is only a mask.   Look beyond the mask, the outward appearance.  See what Jesus would have seen. See them with compassion.  Love the original child of God’s creation.  God will take care of the rest.

As always, I’d love to hear your experiences.  Please share them in the comment section below.

Here’s to your spiritual vision,