Who is Your Prayer Coach?

How Does Jeus Teach Us to Pray?

Are you satisfied with the effectiveness of your prayers?

Would you like to learn how to pray more effectively?

Have you ever thought about finding a coach to help you in that process?  Wait a minute now, whoever heard of a “Prayer Coach”?  Actually, I have someone to recommend in just a minute.

Think about it.

If your kids play basketball at school, they have a coach to teach them, encourage and correct them, to make them better players individually and for the team.

Or let’s say you play golf professionally and want to really improve your game, you hire a coach to help you achieve your goals.

Whatever sport or an activity you can imagine, there is a coach for it.  And one of the most popular areas for coaching today is life itself.  Everyone and his brother seems to be setting up shop as a Life Coach these days.

What is a Prayer Coach?

So if you can have a coach in all these other areas of your life, why not have a coach for one of the most important aspects of your life?  That’s right, someone to coach you how to pray.

And a lot of people have stepped up to the plate to do just that.

Just think for a minute of the countless Bible studies, sermons, books, seminars, workshops, classes, retreats, videos, etc. about how to pray that have been published, preached and promulgated over the centuries.

Wouldn’t it be great to have someone teach you how to pray, not so much saying the right words as purifying your motives?  Someone to encourage you to keep going when things get tough and correct any mistakes you might be making?

Recently I discovered someone who has been coaching me on how to pray more effectively and I would like to recommend his services to you.  I’m not saying you should stop reading your favorite books about how to pray or quit listening to what your favorite preacher has to say about how to pray.  But this guy really know his stuff.

And the great thing is, he keeps it really simple and straight forward.

Sometimes my prayers get way too complicated.  Too wordy, too long and laborious.

If you’re like me, you may catch yourself begging God for something you desperately want or pleading for something you don’t really deserve.  Or what about asking for forgiveness when you haven’t truly repented in your heart?

Or sometimes you just say the words of a prayer and that is all they are, just words.  Hollow.  Empty.  Unfulfilled.   Meaningless.

Well, my new prayer coach is helping me see how to cut to the chase and focus on the important aspects of prayer.

My prayer coach is Jesus.

How Does Jeus Teach Us to Pray?

Jesus: The Ultimate Prayer Coach

And as I said, I highly recommend his services.  No you can’t literally sit at his feet and take a prayer coaching class from him.  But you can read and study everything he said about how to pray and follow his example of how he prayed.

Jesus taught a simple little prayer which we call the Lord’s Prayer.  And the more  we imbibe the spirit of this short prayer, the more we witness its power in our own lives and the world.

Before Jesus teaches his followers this prayer, he says we should pray in “this manner.”  He did not want us to just mindlessly repeat the words over and over.   He wanted us to drink in the deeper meaning of his words.

Who did Jesus tell us to pray to?  (a) God  (b) Jesus  (c) the Holy Ghost  (d) the Virgin Mother  (e) the Saints  (f) our deceased relatives.

The correct answer is (a).  We are supposed to pray to Our Father which is in heaven, God himself.  Jesus never instructs us to pray to him.  We can ask and pray in his name, but we always should pray to the Father Himself.  This is what your prayer coach is telling you.

I have a friend who always prays to Jesus.  I pointed this verse out to him and he had trouble with it because he was taught as a young child to pray to Jesus.  He didn’t want to be disrespectful to Jesus.  But if you want to follow Jesus, you should obey his instructions, which includes praying to the Father.

Jesus said “Our Father”–His Father, your Father and my Father.  Our Father.  We have the same heavenly Father Jesus has.  And when we say “Our Father,” we are praying right along with Jesus and everyone else who is the child of God.  In those two words, we must acknowledge that our spiritual brothers and sisters have the same Father we do.

There is no “I” in the Lord’s Prayer.  It is all “we, our and us.”  We usually say “we” but do we sometimes just think about ourselves?

How do your prayers start?

The first half of the Lord’s Prayer is all about who God is.  This is the way we should start our prayers.  Usually we start with the problem.  But that’s not how Jesus is teaching/coaching us how to pray.

The rest of the prayer deals with our needs, our challenges, our sins and overcoming temptation.  It ends with a bold declaration of God’s supremacy.  Do your prayers end with this same spirit of absolute conviction of God being in complete control of everything in heaven and earth?  Let Jesus coach you on this point.  He knows you can do it or he wouldn’t expect and require it of you.

Jesus is your Prayer Coach.

Listen to him.  Take the Lord’s Prayer and go through it as if Jesus was sitting there with you saying, “This is the WAY (not so much the words) I want you to pray. Look at it in a fresh way.  What is the spirit of each line in the prayer?  What is the message and promise of each line?

He says lots of other things about prayer in the Gospels, especially the Sermon on the Mount.  Read and study these Scriptures like they were a textbook on how to pray:  a blueprint for success, a game plan.

Follow your Prayer Coach’s instructions.  Do what Jesus tells you and your prayers will become more effective.

I have shared just a few insights here.  I could go on and on about what I have discovered, but you need to discover them for yourself.   And as always, I’d love to hear your inspiration.  Please share your thoughts in the comment section.

Blessings,

James

 

“Be of Good Cheer; I Have Overcome the World.”

Stained Glass Window in 1st Presbyterian Church, Amarillo, TX

“These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace.  In the world ye shall have tribulation:  but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”  John 16:33

"Resurrection Morning" Stained Glass window at First Presbyterian Church, Amarillo, TX. This is the church I grew up in.

I love these words of Jesus from the Gospel of John.  It is so indicative of the spiritual level at which he was thinking and living.

The Last Supper is over and Jesus is counseling the remaining 11 disciples about what’s  going to happen in a few short hours.  He is also forewarning them of some of the challenges they are going to face in this material world.  But he says to be of good cheer.  Why?  Because he has already overcome the world.  Here is Jesus, about to be crucified and he is comforting his disciples.  That is so like our Lord.

I’ve been thinking a lot these last few days about Jesus’ declaration, “I have overcome the world.”  He said this before the agony of Gethsemane and the crucifixion.  He had not outwardly proved this victory over the world.  And yet he states emphatically, “I have overcome the world.”   Jesus claims this victory “before the battle” so to speak.

Was Jesus just giving himself and his disciples a pep talk like a football coach might do before a big game?  “Okay team, we are going to win this one!”  I think there was more to it.  However good or confident a football team may be compared to the other team, it is never 100% certain who will win.

And Jesus did not say, “I am going to overcome the world.”  He said he already had.  Big difference.  It’s not just that Jesus knew he would be victorious–because he did know this.  But on a deep spiritual level, the Bible seems to indicate that Jesus had already defeated the enemy in his heart.  He just had to go through the details of proving this in his life–for himself and for us.

This fits with Jesus’ practice of thanking God for something before it had happened.  When he fed the multitudes, he gave thanks for and blessed what was available before the loaves and fish were multiplied.  Before he called Lazarus out of the tomb, he thanked God for hearing and answering his prayer.  He knew what would happen in both cases and he thanked his Father and saw the solutions before they were obvious to everyone else.

And so with the resurrection.  Jesus announced he was already victorious over the world– death, the grave, the sins of the world, over all evil–before he was crucified.  And if you can read between the lines, I think he is expressing a lot of gratitude in this verse.

What are the implications of Jesus’ victory?

Not only did he overcome his own death, he overcame death itself–for all mankind, for all time.

Just try to imagine the picture of Jesus on the cross.  Artists over the ages have painted that poignant scene too many times to count.  I’m sure you have one that’s meaningful to you.  There have been numerous movies and TV specials over the years trying to catch the spirit of what was happening on the dark Friday afternoon almost 2000 years ago.

But just try to imagine how it looked to the crowd.  Here was a man who had brought hope of God’s salvation to the people and he had been defeated.  Many in the crowd had believed he was the promised Messiah, but now their expectations were dashed.  There was fear, doubt and utter dismay in their hearts.

For all practical purposes, it looked like Satan was boasting, “Look everyone, I have killed Christ.  I have overcome Truth!”

But Jesus told us pointedly that the Devil is a liar and there is no truth in him.  Then, if what the Devil says is a lie, then the opposite of what he said must be true.  That means that the Devil, Satan, the Adversary, evil, the carnal mind, whatever you want to call it, was not crucifying Christ.  Christ was crucifying Satan– all evil, all sin, all disease, all death.

In the agony of Gethsemane, Jesus had given up all vestige of his own will.  He submitted entirely to God’s will–which, by the way, included not just the crucifixion but the resurrection as well.  And on the cross, there was so much going on that the human eyes could not take in.  Among other things, Jesus was sacrificing (doing away with) a limited material sense of man as just an animated lump of clay and proving that man’s true life is spiritual and eternal, made in the image of God.  See Genesis 1:26.

Jesus did all this not just for himself.  He did it for us.  He showed us by his supreme example of love and unselfishness how we are to live our lives.  By his willingness to face the ultimate foe and his victory over this foe, our Master shattered the hold that evil has on us.  He has already won the victory over all evil.

His victory gives us the victory.

Evil, or Satan if you prefer, is already defeated– was already defeated before the crucifixion or Jesus would not and could not have said so boldly, “I have overcome the world.”

How does this apply to you and me?

Are we standing on the Rock of Christ and holding in our hearts Jesus’ victory over the world–the materialism and evil of the day, the hatred and disinterest in Christ, Truth?

Are we claiming our own victory over the world– the fear, the want and woes, the challenges that face us?

Are we pre-claiming the victory for those who come to us for help with their worldly tribulations that Jesus said would occur?

And what about those who don’t seem receptive to hearing about God or love or forgiveness or Jesus’ message of salvation?  Do we give up on them or do we claim their right to a victory as well?

Jesus has already overcome whatever challenge anyone, anywhere, anytime will face.

So at this Easter season, take some quiet time with God to plant your feet on the Rock of the Resurrected Christ and on Jesus’ victory over the world.  Claim your own victory over the world as well.

The consequences are grand.

God speaks directly to us in the Book of Revelation, “He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be My son.”  Rev. 21:7  What else do we need?

Have a Resurrection Easter.

All blessings,

James